Ep. 40: Rob Arpa - Marriage - Red Flags & Green Flags

Marriage is something many people don’t know how to approach anymore. Everyone knows someone who’s divorced or going through a divorce or who complains that they want a divorce. This is one reason why many people decide not to get married at all, even if they still want a long-term relationship. But avoiding marriage completely doesn’t have to be the only solution. Understanding some basic relationship principles will help you make better decisions when dating or considering a long-term relationship.

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